Monday, September 5, 2011

Willeen: A Life Well Lived

Last Friday I attended the memorial service for a dear friend and client of ours. She lived 82 years and listening to the eulogy, I was in awe of how she lived those 82 years.


I met Willeen Hasler when I was a budding entrepreneur in 1998 with the lofty goal of starting my own financial planning practice. Willeen was involved in Score Counseling and also the Carlsbad Chamber of Commerce. She took me under her wing and introduced me to several folks.  She chaired the North County Women’s Roundtable and there I met many women who were instrumental in getting my business off the ground. She managed to rope me into chairing the Chamber’s First Friday breakfasts and also involved me in several other committees.  Somewhere along the way, she became my client, which was the highest form of friendship and trust.  


As I sat there last Friday listening to her life story, I was struck by how she lived her life. I would sum it up in two words: Servant Leadership. She loved to serve people and she did so with a forever expanding heart and unconditional love. She always had the other person’s best interest in mind. She wanted others to succeed and she stood by cheering them on. She loved business and used her God given talents and gifts to help others in business. She was a friend to all and she always had positive things to say about everyone.  


She also served her church and was generous with her time, talent and treasure. When one passes away at 82 years of age, there usually are not a lot of people in attendance at the funeral because so many friends and loved ones have passed away and often, elderly people just do not socialize any more. Not in the case of Willeen as the church was filled with folks of all ages. It was a beautiful testament to a treasured soul.


Oh, and did I forget to mention that Willeen only retired in 2010!  


Rest in peace, dear friend, you were a good and faithful servant.